WAS that a $5,000 VBH alligator clutch Michelle Obama was carrying in Italy? That's what the company bragged, absolutely certain it was theirs, until the White House revealed that it was not alligator but an $875 VBH clutch and not the more expensive model. I didn't even know what VBH was until I saw the headlines about the $5,000 one Obama was not carrying.
I love handbags as much as the next girl, but I could never get my head around the idea of spending that kind of money on something that is bound to end up with ink stains. But if Obama wants to spend hers, more power to her.
She wears enough clothes from Gap and J. Crew to make the point that looking great doesn't have to be uber-expensive -- led t8 tube replacemen although the things she manages to find at those places never seem to be there when I am -- and that half the fun of fashion is figuring out how to copy high-style for less.
What Obama projects, with her bright colors, body-conscious clothes and keen sense of style, is a woman at her best, looking great, feeling great, being great, full of life, celebrating her country and her family and, yes, herself. The White House was quick to say the bag didn't cost $5,000, but it was still what my mother would have called a very, very good bag, and Obama didn't apologize for that. Why should she?
She's not 22. She's a grown woman who hasn't faded to beige or placed herself in the background, who isn't embarrassed that she doesn't look 17, who by all reports doesn't hate her hips or hide her rear or ask whether the dress makes her look fat before she lets herself like it.
If that isn't a role model, what is?
The other day, I ran into a woman I know who has done very well professionally. I hadn't seen her in a while, and somehow I was taken aback. She looked worse than she once did. I laugh when I see young Replica Balenciaga Purse women trying too hard, because the truth is that when you're young, it's easy. The woman I ran into got to where
embroidered patches she is, at least in part, by not getting trapped by the beauty thing.
On the other hand, she was long past the point where she needed to use or hide her sexuality. Now middle-aged, she's become one of those women that other women can't look at for five minutes without wanting to do a makeover and wondering why she hasn't. Is she really happy this way? More power to her, but I want younger women to know it doesn't have to be that way.
Obama is middle-aged, too. You can be powerful and beautiful. You can be passionate about politics and clutch bags; you can do your best for your country and look your best while you do. You deserve that.
And we should all ditch black for yellow. Especially in a recession.
Susan Estrich writes for Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Los Angeles, Calif. 90045.
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